Locking your own daughter !!!
Unfortunately, there are a small group of these parents who do not want to apply the education of Islam, but want the education of the shaytan for their own child. Among these things is the so-called locking of their own daughter.
Children are a blessing to ALLAH when the children are raised in the way that ALLAH has prescribed.
Every child is born with a natural predisposition, the fitrah, or the predisposition to believe in ALLAH the Almighty and to worship him.
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said:
"Every child is born in a state of Fitrah, after that it is his parents who make him a Jew, Christian or Zorostriaan (Majoos)".
(Saheeh Bukhari and Muslim)
In other words, the parents have a very important task in raising the child and teaching the child what is good and bad with the Koran and the Sunnah, and then the child will be a blessing with the will of Allah.
Unfortunately, there are a small group of these parents who do not want to apply the education of Islam, but want the education of the shaytan for their own child.
Among these things is the so-called locking of their own daughter.
The parent or parents have become so detached from the leadership of ALLAH that they start to think of their own child as a bad and sinful child and to supposedly prevent this they will take precautions so that they can live with peace of mind!
In most cases this case is done by the mother alone without the father even knowing about it and sometimes in consultation with the father.
Often there are neighbor women on the floor who bring news to the mother, gossip and experiences they have with sahara etc, and from these experiences it is protecting your daughter that she will have intercourse for marriage, because there is a way to do this prevent according to the neighbor!
When you think about this for a moment, the daughter they are talking about is usually only a few years old, innocent and still in the fitrah and they already have a satanic thought about the child that this child is going to be debauched when she grows up and rage will go with her honor.
The reason they think this is because these parents have rotten their hearts and are polluted by their own sins and they don't want to put a lot of effort into raising their child with Islam.
But what exactly are they doing and what is this locking?
The mother or together with the father or neighbor will take the daughter to the cursed sahir and they will express their wish that the girl be protected from intercourse before marriage.
The sahir will be happy with this request for Kufr and will sometimes even want a consideration from the parents for even more Kufr, such as the slaughter of an animal in a certain place or the burning of a certain amulet or dust etc, and sometimes it is paying money just enough for this because the Kufr has already been confirmed by asking for locking.
The sahir will ask the so-called age when the clasp must be removed and will claim that the child is safe from intercourse and sexual feelings until she gets married.
In reality, the mother has possessed her daughter with her own consent through sihr, there will be 1 or several shayateen occupying her body.
Her parents are proud to go home with their daughter, they think that they have now created peace and can let their daughter do what they want because she will not be able to have a community.
Unfortunately, the parents are doubly deceived, 1 x because their act Kufr is disbelief and with this they have placed themselves outside of Islam and without genuine repentance they will not enter paradise, but the other is that they have made their daughters life harder by her now saddle up with shayateen that will lead her to fasad and badness.
The girl has now grown up and had a beautiful life and now wants to get married, she is getting married and suddenly she and the man behind it, fellowship is not possible, because what the sahir has done is still active, the shayateen prevent any feeling lust and even preventing the act physically, because there is Rabt (Tqaf) active, the lock which prevents community.
But that's not all, the shaytan will influence every aspect of the girl's life, her studies, work, marriage that often fails in the early stages, relationship with mother and family, health, etc., etc.
This is the merit of Kufr, this is the merit of the parent who does not want to educate their children with Islam but who chooses the education of the shaytan.!
If you are a parent who is thinking about this, stop doing this and distance yourself from those who brought this idea to you and repent
Are you a parent who has already done this, repent daily until you die, cry for ALLAH's sake and leave all sins, help your daughter with the allowed roqyah and beg ALLAH for forgiveness before death comes and it is too late and do again the Sahada.
If you are a victim of this, do roqyah in the permitted manner and do not be fooled into being wrong, point out to your parents and tell them the truth and let them repent for what they have done, do not argue with them and forgive them for the sake of ALLAH.
If you are a sister, brother who sees that this can happen with your own sister, help her before this happens and advise the parents to stop and repent.